The end of second chances

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Okies, the end to the story. Because it has ended!

Ya know how I said in my last post that there might be an update as to what is going on with Mr Musician? Well of course there is an update! THERE ARE ALWAYS UPDATES!

I’ve scheduled this to go up on Wednesday instead of on Sunday when I’m writing it. Mostly because I have a whole bunch of posts that I want to get scheduled so that when I’m lazy I still have posts going out, and because I’m avoiding school work right now so whatever lay off me!

Okies, so we ended our story with Mr Musician saying sorry. Legit just one word while I was sleeping: Sorry

No punctuation. No emojis. Not even “I’m Sorry” Just Sorry

So I asked “for?” because ya know what, I was pretty pissed at him for just popping back up into my life. Like sure we had a good week of talking. But I was upfront the whole time about what this was to me, and what I wanted and for him to say it was ok and that he was fine with it when it wasn’t even remotely close to what he wanted? I was angry!

I sent my text at like 8 or 9 am. He replies at 2pm “Sorry” AGAIN!! I spent the day chatting with a few friends of mine (men and women) about the whole situation and basically they were all like “he just wants back into the flirt game” or “for him to do what he did was so disrespectful why are you talking to him?” or “He’s SCUM! I hope he gets hit by a bus and dies a slow and agonizing death!”

But I was intrigued. I was so clear about where I stood. A small tiny part of me thought that maybe he was changing his mind? But if he said he was, would he actually be? Or did he just miss my sweet sweet flirting skills (I’ve got game. I’m not afraid to admit it).

Instead of typing out what transpired after I replied to him at almost 6pm, let me just show you the receipts. And yes I know his name is in there. And no, I don’t really care to change it or hide it. That’s how pfft I am about this guy.

I’m sorry for the swears. I know it’s very unlike me. He replied “name calling lol wow” but I just deleted the message and blocked him on the dating app he messaged me on.

So while on Wednesday I was sad and fighting back tears for the whole night after his little revelation, now I’m just angry. Like what was even the point of him talking to me on Friday?! UGH

But at least there is an ending and a closure and I got to say my piece in a way that I can hold my head high instead of wishing I hadn’t over reacted.

Dating sucks.

32 thoughts on “The end of second chances”

  1. Gosh… Modern dating really doesn’t fun! I just told my husband we can never divorce because I just couldn’t cope with those dating apps. 😂

    For real, I’m glad you got closure. It sucks that he was such an ass, but at least it was clear early on and you didn’t discover this months down the road. The right guy will come along. 😊

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  3. Wow, what an idiot. I agree with Frede and I’ve said it before, I’m not doing that. If anything happens to my hubs (divorce, death, whatever) I’m going the rest of the way alone. It is too time consuming and frustrating to bother with trying to find another right person. Side note, both my 33-year-old daughter and 31-year-old son are going through the dating site thing now. Daughter has had some disappointments but son is having a first date tonight and she sounds really nice so far. Keeping fingers crossed for all of you.

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  4. I have literally been thinking about your update since I read there would be one today ☺ You did good girl! Guys suck! If anything ever happens with me and my husband, imarrying for 💵 next time! Don’t worry tho, the right one will come along at the perfect time! You will see!

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    • Haha I didn’t know so many people were invested in this story! Next time I’ll schedule the updates closer together lol!!

      I’m not sure I could ever marry for money. I’m like Lizzy from Pride and Prejudice – only the deepest love will induce me into matrimony. All the rest are Mr Collins and they can get lost

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  5. You need to go and see Little Women (the one in cinemas now). Be like Jo 🙂

    Yup, good riddance. And I see my “ratfink” labelling was spot on the money. I hope you have better luck with the dating apps in the future.

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  6. First off, I feel you bout that whole scheduling posts thing. It’s a lifesaver!

    Second, good on you for holding your own. 😊 I wouldn’t be surprised if that whole ‘sorry’ thing wasn’t a play at trying to manipulate you into changing your mind. I dated a guy like that once. Willing to mess with someone’s feelings and emotions to get what he wanted, using words like sorry as weapons. Maybe that wasn’t this guy’s intent, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was.

    And third, they aren’t all like him. Good men that will wait and respect you are out there. I married one, so I know. 😉 Never settle! ❤️

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  8. First of all, he needs to go and meditate to figure out what the heck he wants. It’s why I’ve been so blah about dating lately. Second of all, good for you for standing up for yourself and letting him have it.

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  10. WOW WOW WOW.
    Can I just punch him for you right now, because that just made me so darn angry. Like have some respect & use your words dude.
    But this was clearly for the better despite him being a child! You deserve so much better anyways hun!

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